Welcoming a New Baby
Welcoming a new sibling into the family means lots of change in the home and I am here to help you with that. Whether it’s the idea of having a new family member, a change in the routine or just some extra noise around the house, it is a lot for the older sibling to take in.
When we started getting ready for Serena’s arrival, preparation for this big change was incredibly helpful. Preparation for your new addition doesn’t need to be complicated and it can be something that you simply sprinkle into your daily life before the baby arrives.
Here are some things you can do to help support the older sibling and prepare him or her for the new baby to join your family.
Look at old baby photos of the older sibling. Talk about what is happening in the photos and share how this is what you will soon be doing with the baby.
Demonstrate some of the ways you may be taking care of the new baby with a baby doll. Maybe it’s a diaper change, giving a bath, displaying “gentle touch”, swaddling or giving a bottle. Invite the older sibling to help if he or she seems interested.
Buy a special gift for the older sibling from the baby. Help build that connection and care between the two of them and ask the older sibling to make something for the baby too. It can be something small like painting a special picture frame for a picture of the two of them.
Create a social story for your child. This type of book is relatable and supportive for this big change.
Lastly, acknowledge their feelings about this change. This can be a big deal for some children and there typically is an adjustment period for the older sibling. Giving extra hugs and kisses when you can can help that older sibling feel included and noticed during this shift in time.
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